I received a request from the Gold Star Parents of a fallen U.S. Navy Sailor. They have been following Gold Star Peak for awhile now.

They proudly said the ashes of their son have been spread in the Pacific and Atlantic Oceans, the Continental Divide, Flag Mountain in Colorado, and they have also been welded into a bulkhead of the ship he once served on.

The father said they will be coming to Alaska this Spring, but only passing through Anchorage on the train. His plan was to climb Gold Star Peak with us and spread their son’s ashes on the summit. Unfortunately, their itinerary will not allow them to accomplish this.

Until that days comes, he asked if I would carry a hero card of their son up the mountain and place it on the summit. I was honored at his request, so I printed and laminated the card to carry up.

This week, John and I climbed Gold Star Peak. Packing for the climb I carefully packed Sean’s card in my pack. Although the photo is nearly weightless, it weighed heavily on my back. I found myself thinking about Sean as we made our way up the mountain, and his proud loving parents that asked us to do this. It wasn’t until I reached the summit that I realized his birthday was this week.

As I was typing an email to Sean’s parents with the news and picture, I noticed his phone number in his signature block. I decided, I will call him with the news instead. Having never talked to him before, the call took him by surprise. We had a great conversation, including our hike, as well as talking about his service in Vietnam as platoon medic with the 101st ABN DIV. I then confirmed his address and sent him this picture.

Sometimes, it’s the lightest and smallest things in life that weigh heavy on us.

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Sean.